Hey y’all
I’ve been messaged privately by folks who didn’t like the personal attacks that came out of this most recent debate, and so I believe this is something that needs to be addressed from a moderation standpoint.
One of the many things I love about MEW is that we’re an incredibly diverse group people brought together by our shared love of gaming.
It is wonderful to be able to discuss gaming and non-gaming related stuff among a group of friends where you know you can assume good faith.
I’m really hoping that when we disagree and debate charged issues that we can extend that same good faith to one another.
Having a place on the Internet to have such discussions is basically unheard of nowadays. Everyone keeps to their own echo chamber, and so we all grow divided. Focusing on the small things where we differ, instead of the big things that unite us.
However, I also recognise that there are some topics that have become so charged that a constructive discussion just becomes impossible. People quickly divide themselves into two camps and all good faith goes out the window.
I don’t care if we disagree about religion, politics, climate change, vaccines, the shape of the earth, COVID-19, or whether Bobby Kotick is overpaid… so long as we do so civilly.
That said, the MEW community is more important to me than any one topic.
If you’ll indulge a brief anecdote: I’ve actually had a throw-down fight with a very good friend of mine not because of the COVID-related point he was arguing, but because of the way he was arguing the point. That kind of debate is not a debate, but a fight, and is completely pointless because you’re not actually dealing with the meat of the issue. Fortunately, we are very good IRL friends and managed to get to the other side of the fight without hating each other. Had it been anyone but a close friend, though, such a fight would probably have been a very destructive.
One inflammatory issue must not be allowed to wreck the relationships on this forum.
So I’m asking that from now on we all consider very carefully how we engage with this topic. Be careful about making off-hand jokes in the heat of a debate. Always, always stick to the point being discussed and don’t conflate two points of view, or a point of view with an identity.
Part of the problem with discourse since the 2010s is for some reason holding one opinion gets you lumped in with a “camp”.
What I’m trying to say is that we—MEW—contain multitudes. And that is a wonderful thing that I will fight very hard to protect.
There are many discussions in this topic that I think have been extremely valuable, like the questions about the privacy/security of the COVID Alert SA app and the GAEN API, and I don’t want to shut that down.
Hence this appeal. Please, please keep it civil in this topic. If I’ve overstepped the bounds, let me know so that I don’t do it again either.
If needs be, we’ll close this topic, but ideally I wouldn’t want to.