Itâs Sunday, 07 February 2021(W5/D38/327 rem)
Today is @DieGrootHammerâs birthday
Today is also Wave All Your Fingers at Your Neighbour Dayđ
Probably the most obscure of the âholidaysâ Iâve found so far. And it seems that the part of it that is emphasised is the âall your fingersâ bit. Presumably the idea is to try and be friendly to your neighbours for a change and rather than the usual one finger salute you give them, today you try to mend some fences and build up your relationship with a full fingered wave instead .
So, if youâre someone who has give your neighbour the finger before because they have annoyed you, on this date you can try to wave in a friendly manner instead. Sounds easy enough, right?
Not everyone reading this is going to have enjoyed a pleasant relationship with their neighbour. Especially those of us in urban neighbourhoods where we have many neighbours - to the left, to the right, above and below.
We all have stories about neighbours from hell.* If you feel that your neighbour falls into this category, you may not want to wave at them in a friendly manner. However, taking the high road, even if it is just for one day, can feel better than you may expect. Plus, simply seeing the shock on your neighbourâs face because of your unexpected friendliness can make it worth it.
One thing that we can all agree on is that we could all do with a little bit more kindness in the world, and that is what this day is all about. Enthusiastic greetings and genuine happiness to see another person can make them feel great about themselves and start off their day in the best possible way.
After all, itâs better to be the neighbour that everyone loves, rather than the grump that everyone dislikes! It doesnât take a lot of effort to be friendly and greet people with a nice wave and a smile.
Have a super Sunday! And, âHi neighboursâ
* After giving your neighbours the full fingered friendly wave, come back here and tell us about the worst neighbours from hell youâve had in the past.